{"id":9248,"date":"2025-06-12T07:14:12","date_gmt":"2025-06-12T11:14:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/?p=9248"},"modified":"2025-09-22T05:46:13","modified_gmt":"2025-09-22T09:46:13","slug":"life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/06\/12\/life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Life-Changing Advice from Successful Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>What Advice do you have to Offer<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everyday someone is offering us advice on one thing or another. Often, it&#8217;s helpful. Other times we take it for granted and let it go with the wind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"665\" height=\"669\" data-attachment-id=\"9414\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/06\/12\/life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends\/img_5887\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?fit=665%2C669&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"665,669\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG_5887\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Rick Ollie&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Rick Ollie&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?fit=665%2C669&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?resize=665%2C669&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9414\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?w=665&amp;ssl=1 665w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?resize=298%2C300&amp;ssl=1 298w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/IMG_5887.jpeg?resize=200%2C200&amp;ssl=1 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 665px) 100vw, 665px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The other day a piece of advice once given to me popped to mind. And although I didn&#8217;t follow it years back, I still remember what was said. I&#8217;m wondering now, if I had taken it, how big of a difference it would&#8217;ve made in my life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then I thought it would be nice to ask some of my more influential friends on advice given to them, at one point or another during their life, that they&#8217;ve stuck to (rather than neglecting it like I had).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Here&#8217;s their replies.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/bougiedilemma\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Nadege August<\/a><\/em><\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm0041895\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Nadege<\/a><\/em><\/strong> is an actress, producer and podcast host who plays the role of <strong><em>Joan<\/em><\/strong> in Tyler Perry&#8217;s <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt11306366\/fullcredits\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ruthless<\/a><\/em><\/strong> on BET. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" data-attachment-id=\"8027\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/03\/06\/question-i-hate-being-asked-most\/adobe-express-file-4\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?fit=1080%2C1080&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1080,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Adobe Express &amp;#8211; file\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Nadege August, Actress&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Nadege August, Actress&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?fit=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?resize=1080%2C1080&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8027\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Adobe-Express-file.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Nadege August, Actress<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I was riding back from a hard day in grad school. New York City. Just found out that I was about 10k short for my tuition. I was sobbing on the A train. I fought the tears, but they were just pouring. I put on my sunglasses, but the well of <strong><em>Tears Would Not Stop<\/em><\/strong>,&#8221; recalled the Actress when I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;A man was sitting across from me. He was probably in his early 40\u2019s. At his stop- he stood up and as the doors opened, he leaned over to me and said: &#8220;<strong><em>smile, whatever it is, it can\u2019t be that hard<\/em><\/strong>.&#8221; And just like that-He exited humming the song \u201cSmile\u201d By Nat King Cole.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/phS7BfOfTOY?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=es-MX&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He was right &#8211; I smiled through my tears,&#8221; she finished. &#8220;And sorrows and the next day- the sun came shining through.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/tkaehler_author\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tammy Kaehler<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tammykaehler.com\/tammy.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tammy<\/a><\/em><\/strong> is an Author and Tech Writer who, also, attended racing school. I&#8217;ve <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/?s=tammy+kaehler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">written<\/a><\/em><\/strong> about on several occasions, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/tammy-2.webp?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"798\" height=\"1064\" data-attachment-id=\"1345\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/gallery\/tammy-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/tammy-2.webp?fit=798%2C1064&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"798,1064\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"tammy-2\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Tammy Kaehler Writer\/Author&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Tammy Kaehler, Writer\/Author&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/tammy-2.webp?fit=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/tammy-2.webp?resize=798%2C1064&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1345\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Tammy Kaehler, Writer\/Author<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Best advice I ever got was \u201c<strong><em>The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d It helps keep everything in perspective,&#8221; offered the multi-facetted writer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-attachment-id=\"9254\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/06\/12\/life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends\/8013429-stephen-r-covey-quote-the-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?fit=3840%2C2160&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"3840,2160\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?fit=1024%2C576&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?resize=1024%2C576&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?resize=1024%2C576&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?resize=1536%2C864&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?resize=2048%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?resize=1200%2C675&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/8013429-Stephen-R-Covey-Quote-The-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My husband came across it somewhere and it\u2019s become a staple in our household. I think it\u2019s a Stephen Covey quote.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/doctor.brea\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Dr. Breanna Reeser<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Breanna<\/em><\/strong>, or Doc as I call her, is relatively new to my circle. She&#8217;s Director of Operations at <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spanbase.org\/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeuVa0uiUiTT_fUXU3VHylMUlm2DDRZB6wEjlQntI3gKu7ByQtHygnOvoiX3A_aem_onhxEs3csMsGPvGVainLiQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">spanbase.org<\/a><\/em><\/strong>. <strong><em>SPAN<\/em><\/strong>, through Oregon&#8217;s state-approved licensing program, is about educating the community on safe and ethical use of plant medicine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"891\" height=\"1024\" data-attachment-id=\"9268\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/06\/12\/life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends\/breanna-reeser\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?fit=1304%2C1498&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1304,1498\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Breanna Reeser\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Dr Breanna Reeser&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Dr Breanna Reeser&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?fit=891%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?resize=891%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9268\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?resize=891%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 891w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?resize=261%2C300&amp;ssl=1 261w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?resize=768%2C882&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?resize=1200%2C1379&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Breanna-Reeser.jpeg?w=1304&amp;ssl=1 1304w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 891px) 100vw, 891px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><em>Dr Breanna Reeser<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I\u2019ve had so many people give me so much great advice along the way &#8211; but the one that I have been holding onto this last year is something I read in a blog about resilience,&#8221; Doc tells me. \u201c<strong><em>The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time<\/em><\/strong>,&#8221; by Thomas Edison.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"552\" data-attachment-id=\"9260\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/06\/12\/life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends\/6553300-thomas-edison-quote-the-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?fit=3840%2C2070&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"3840,2070\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to (1)\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Thomas Edison&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Thomas Edison&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?fit=1024%2C552&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C552&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C552&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?resize=300%2C162&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?resize=768%2C414&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?resize=1536%2C828&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?resize=2048%2C1104&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/6553300-Thomas-Edison-Quote-The-most-certain-way-to-succeed-is-always-to-1.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>And would you say you have \u2018succeeded\u2019 in using the advice?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Absolutely- after every setback this year, when I wanted to give up, I told myself \u201cJust one more try.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;And I kept going &#8211; I don\u2019t consider myself successful yet, but I sure have successfully put the advice into practice and have kept trying,&#8221; She concluded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/carohartharris\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Caroline Harris<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm8863263\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Caroline<\/a><\/em><\/strong> is an actor with more movie and tv credits than I can keep up with. She&#8217;s, also, been part of several <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/?s=caroline+harris\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">articles<\/a><\/em><\/strong> and mentions on my site. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/caroline-2.webp?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"1350\" data-attachment-id=\"1357\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/gallery\/caroline-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/caroline-2.webp?fit=900%2C1350&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"900,1350\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"caroline-2\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Caroline Harris, Actor&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Caroline Harris, Actor&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/caroline-2.webp?fit=683%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/caroline-2.webp?resize=900%2C1350&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1357\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><em>Caroline Harris, Actor<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;One of the best pieces of advice I\u2019ve ever received,&#8221; Caroline says, &#8220;is to have \u201c<strong><em>stick-toitivness<\/em><\/strong>,\u201d which means to just keep on going despite immediate results. For acting and also for life! It\u2019s the quality that will get you the furthest.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"STICK-TO-ITIVENESS #shorts #wordoftheday #wordmeaning #viral\" width=\"422\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/phsYzQaUlGc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She adds, &#8220;I believe it was my college acting teacher.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/realmomofsfv\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Jennifer Miyagishima<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.realmomofsfv.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Jen<\/a><\/em><\/strong> is an administrative coordinator, content creator and blogger. If you&#8217;re looking for latest happenings in &#8216;<strong><em>Southern Cal<\/em><\/strong>,&#8217; she&#8217;s sure to write about it. And lots more including the latest movie releases and sights to visit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" data-attachment-id=\"9300\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/06\/12\/life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends\/jen-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?fit=1080%2C1350&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1080,1350\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Jen\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Jennifer Miyagishima&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Jennifer Miyagishima&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?fit=819%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?resize=819%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?resize=819%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 819w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?resize=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?resize=768%2C960&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jen.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><em>Jennifer Miyagishima, Administrative Coordinator<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I used to record Oprah\u2019s TV talk show back in the day,&#8221; <strong><em>Jen<\/em><\/strong> began. &#8220;She gives great advice and one that I took to heart is \u201c<strong><em>to find your purpose and passion<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1nwMMVgO36I?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=es-MX&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Also, to work hard and find something that allows you to make a genuine difference in the lives of others!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>How has it worked for you Jen?<\/em><\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It\u2019s a work in progress.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/clarity_for_mind\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Agnieszka Rdesinska<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you don&#8217;t know <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/clarityformind.com\/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacuT4oGzfjebHy2t68DCYeVw3NEzVuW19AorNfs7wn4FWsdrVvkSKF3A5T9Dw_aem_NzNA_4Sfk48Ji1Ur7viqrA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Agnes<\/a><\/em><\/strong> by now, you&#8217;re really new to my site. She&#8217;s a master degreed, certified hypnotherapist and NLP Coach now overseeing hundreds of company employee&#8217;s mental health. And has been in more of my <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/?s=agnes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">articles<\/a><\/em><\/strong> than anyone else and even interviewed <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2024\/07\/17\/a-special-meet-rick-ollie-by-agnieszka-rdesinska\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">me<\/a><\/em><\/strong> for one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" data-attachment-id=\"9336\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2025\/06\/12\/life-changing-advice-from-successful-friends\/agnes-advice\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?fit=1080%2C1350&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1080,1350\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Agnes advice\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Agnieszka Rdesinska&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Agnieszka Rdesinska&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?fit=819%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?resize=819%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?resize=819%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 819w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?resize=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?resize=768%2C960&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Agnes-advice.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><em>Agnieszka Rdesinska, Hypnotherapist<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;The best piece of advice I ever got was when I was a teenage girl and just discovering the internet,&#8221; Agnes brazenly starts. &#8220;I found an online community that was very different from the people around me\u2014cynical, rebellious, full of strong opinions.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;One phrase they always used stuck with me: \u201c<strong><em>Stop caring so much, and good things will come to you<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d It taught me not to take life too seriously, to stop overthinking everything, and to let go of the pressure to please everyone. That mindset has stuck with me\u2014not in a careless way, but in a grounded way.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/y83x7MgzWOA?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=es-MX&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Professionally,&#8221; she concludes, &#8220;it\u2019s helped me stay calm under pressure, trust my instincts, and not get too caught up in what others might think. It reminds me to focus on what matters and not waste energy on perfectionism or people-pleasing. It\u2019s been surprisingly empowering.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>My Choice from the Web<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was a surprise to come across while writing this piece, In an interview with <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/annielobert\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Annie Lobert<\/a><\/em><\/strong> from <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/hookersforjesus\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hookers For Jesus<\/a><\/em><\/strong> longtime media friend <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/heidiharrisshow\/\">Heidi Harris<\/a><\/em><\/strong> tells of a valuable lesson she learned at the hands of a coworker.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='421' height='750' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/UEQImPB7?cover=1&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;useAverageColor=1&amp;hd=0' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen data-resize-to-parent=\"true\" allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1739540970'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2024\/01\/10\/meet-heidi-harris-god-the-mob-and-snakes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Heidi<\/a><\/em><\/strong>&#8216;s story can be turned into excellent advice simply by remembering &#8216;<strong><em>It&#8217;s not all about you<\/em><\/strong>&#8216; because others may have other things going on in their life that you&#8217;re not aware of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here you have it. 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