{"id":3727,"date":"2024-05-26T09:47:11","date_gmt":"2024-05-26T13:47:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/?p=3727"},"modified":"2025-05-25T08:47:39","modified_gmt":"2025-05-25T12:47:39","slug":"having-it-all-is-not-really-worth-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2024\/05\/26\/having-it-all-is-not-really-worth-it\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Having it All,&#8217; Is Not Really Worth It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Just Like Bogie and Bacall<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"577\" data-attachment-id=\"3730\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/2024\/05\/26\/having-it-all-is-not-really-worth-it\/bogie-and-bacall\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?fit=2000%2C1126&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2000,1126\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;AP&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;1957 AP&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Bogie-and-Bacall\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Bogie and Bacall&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Bogie and Bacall&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?fit=1024%2C577&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?resize=1024%2C577&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3730\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?resize=1024%2C577&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?resize=1536%2C865&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?resize=1200%2C676&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bogie-and-Bacall.jpg?w=2000&amp;ssl=1 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><em>Bogie and Bacall<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Immediately I began thinking of the <strong><em>Bertie Higgins <\/em><\/strong>classic, <strong><em>Key Largo<\/em><\/strong>, as the question popped up today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Ru2tsT32pHA?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=es-MX&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8216;Having it All&#8217;<\/em><\/strong> is too subjective to define and in my eyes not worth the trouble, as the haves will always have and the have nots will not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you have happiness, don&#8217;t make it unhappy. If you have love, don&#8217;t unlove it. And if you have friendship, don&#8217;t unfriend it. Life is too short to heal over it and you can&#8217;t take it with you. So, <strong><em>Don&#8217;t Worry Be Happy<\/em><\/strong>, like <strong><em>Bobby McFerrin<\/em><\/strong> sings. Because in all honesty, this is having it all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/d-diB65scQU?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=es-MX&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most importantly remember &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/rsw_1160h_872-2.webp?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"872\" data-attachment-id=\"1349\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rickollie.com\/es\/gallery\/rsw_1160h_872-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/rsw_1160h_872-2.webp?fit=1160%2C872&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1160,872\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"rsw_1160h_872-2\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;You&amp;#8217;re Worth A Lot to Me&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/rsw_1160h_872-2.webp?fit=1024%2C770&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rickollie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/rsw_1160h_872-2.webp?resize=1160%2C872&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1349\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">You&#8217;re Worth A Lot to Me<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230; <strong><em>&#8216;You&#8217;re Worth A Lot to Me&#8217;<\/em><\/strong> with or without it all. Be yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em><strong><em>You can find my sites at <a href=\"https:\/\/linktr.ee\/rickollie\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Linktree<\/a>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>and if you enjoy my writings, please consider hitting that cup of coffee and making a donation. Thank you!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">dailyprompt<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">dailyprompt 1949<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#8217;t Worry Be Happy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-jetpack-blogging-prompt jetpack-blogging-prompt\"><div class=\"jetpack-blogging-prompt__label\">Daily writing prompt<\/div><div class=\"jetpack-blogging-prompt__text\">What does &#8220;having it all&#8221; mean to you? 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